UPDATE..... Well, atfer the conversation about the car on Thursday. On Friday when I got home from work W was talkative to me watch TV with me and ate dinner with me. This was all unusual, but good sign. Today Saturday W said back hurt, I offered to rub her back and she excepted. This is the FIRST physical contact we have had in 2 to 3 months. To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
UPDATE..... Well, atfer the conversation about the car on Thursday. On Friday when I got home from work W was talkative to me watch TV with me and ate dinner with me. This was all unusual, but good sign. Today Saturday W said back hurt, I offered to rub her back and she excepted. This is the FIRST physical contact we have had in 2 to 3 months. To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
UPDATE..... Well, atfer the conversation about the car on Thursday. On Friday when I got home from work W was talkative to me watch TV with me and ate dinner with me. This was all unusual, but good sign. Today Saturday W said back hurt, I offered to rub her back and she excepted. This is the FIRST physical contact we have had in 2 to 3 months. To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
UPDATE..... Well, atfer the conversation about the car on Thursday. On Friday when I got home from work W was talkative to me watch TV with me and ate dinner with me. This was all unusual, but good sign. Today Saturday W said back hurt, I offered to rub her back and she excepted. This is the FIRST physical contact we have had in 2 to 3 months. To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
UPDATE..... Well, atfer the conversation about the car on Thursday. On Friday when I got home from work W was talkative to me watch TV with me and ate dinner with me. This was all unusual, but good sign. Today Saturday W said back hurt, I offered to rub her back and she excepted. This is the FIRST physical contact we have had in 2 to 3 months. To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
To night she is to go bowling with her girlfriend, and she is not taking the car. We will see what time she comes home or if she calls if going to take longer than planed.
We'll also see if Red has a better planned response than last time if Red has his boundary tested.
Right??
The really cool thing about waywards' "script" behavior is that you can use its utter predictability to better prepare good responses.
Puppy
Last edited by Puppy Dog Tails; 05/30/0903:14 PM. Reason: to add
Hi - thanks for reading my thread. I just asked you on mine if she was still living at home but read through yours so up to date now.:) This is a tough thing to go through but we just have to take it a day or minute at a time.
What actions should I take next if she pulls another stunt like the other night. I don't want to be a snoopy, control freak, but I want to make a stand and hold my ground. Looking back in the past I have not done this! I was talking with my W sister about everything about 1 or 2 months ago and she said I let W get away with alot of stuff. I have become a push over to W, and I really need help with ideas to help be a stand up H with action to W childish behavoir, with out being a snoop or control freak.
Me:39 W:38 D:9 D:7 First Bomd: Dec 08 Second BOMD: Jun 09 OM M: 13yrs T: 14:yrs
