omg... i've only known you for such a short while... but we are in the same kind of pain...

PLEASE stop this right now... omg I cant tell you enough how much your hurting yourself, im actually bleeding inside thinking of you and i am worried of you.

please... do not talk to the OW anymore, ok... its not healthy, I know it might seem like some kind of revenge he deserves AND HE DOES, but this is doing so much hurt to you, and let me tell you something S. Shes an OW and he knew he was MARRIED she knew what she was getting into, STOP feeling for HER, she wants that an you are playing INTO HER HANDS!

this is not a three way relationship ok, its YOUR marriage and this OW has INTERFERED with that, you need to STOP TALKING TO HER AND I DONT CARE HOW SYMPATHETIC SHE SEEMS NOW, she might not be later after oh "GREAT SEX" with YOUR husband and HIM sucking up to HER!!! and thats what SHE will want!!!

your in a crisis. im asking you as one woman to another.. to please NOT speak to this ow anymore, it doesnt MATTER what he did to HER. this isnt a threesome! omg. shes just trying to USE you and get INFO from you!

you are in a horrible place. but the OW isnt going to help you. this is not your friend ok??? please DETACH. her sitch with your h is not YOURS... dont make it yours... her ills are not yours.. dont make them yours!

you are in a place i call "having too much information". your overloading. get RID of this person from your life!

i am praying for you, right NOW.


When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.