You'll never see me fall from grace

[Sugar and Spice]

OH MY FRESH HELL!!!!!!!

I couldn't make this $hit up if it was a soap opera!!! Ok, first I have been drinking, so if there are typos or incoherrent meanderings...thats my story & I'm stickin to it.

So I had to go to Traffic Court this am (becuase I have a probelm with my gas pedal and I got a ticket and WHATEVER!!!!) So I go and stand in the long assed line to get an appt. for traffic court (you go in the am to be told to come back in the pm) That makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! ANYWAY! I did that and then went to get a tea and when I got to work I went to silence my phone and there were missed calls from the OW. Mind you H had done the lunchtime drama thing with her on Wednesday because I told him I was done with the lying. I was surprised to say the least but I was game and tried to call her back. She didn't answer so I left a VM. She called me back but I was away from my desk. So I texted her and asked if she wanted me to call her then or later.

A lot of texts and calls between H and I and OW and I and she will call me after work. FFWD: I go to traffic court and take my DS13 to his meeting for his DC trip and H takes DD7 to her softball practice. I was weak and we did the rubby bumpy before he left and ANYWAY... H had said it wouldn't be pretty and OW was still mad about the VM I left when this all began FOREVER ago and I am over it. So she actually called me.

We talked for 1 1/2 hrs. and as much as I LOATHE to say it, she is not a horrible person. She is a woman that got herself into a bad situation and has been lied to repeatdly (Ummmm...hello, how familiar does that sound?) and now is at the same crossroads as I am. She loves this idiot and now realizes he has played BOTH ends against the middle. Long story short (read this as drunk and need to not type) both of our eyes were opened to just how selfish and duplicitious (I know your impressed) that he is. She told me many things I did not know and I told her things she did not know. I guess I'm not surprised, but I held out that Pollyanna hope that he wasn't the douchebag I suspected he was...(he is). We talked about everything. It was enlightening to say the least.
After we got done I called him with a few of the finer details of what she said and he denied it. So I called her back and told her what he said. She waited awhile and then she called him and fronted him out about it. He did damage control, then she called me and told me what happened.

There was ominous silence for a while and I was texting him and he wasn't answering. I texted her and I learned she had went down to the cardroom to confront him and he wouldn't really talk to her, but he did say that he had "Made a Mistake and he would make things better." She had went down to the cardroom and he told her this. I got pissed and I went down ther myself.

You should have seen his face when he turned around and saw me standing there. PRICELESS!!!! He actually had the GALL to ask me why I was ther and not home with out kids? REALLY? You want to go there? Ummm, probably not. We talked outside and he denied most of what she said at first. He kept sayuing he wanted to come home, but he couldn't/wouldn't look me in the eye. We left it with me saying he needed to be honest and just tell me what he wanted and him saying he needed time (WHATWVWR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) I also told him that until he had an answer that he better not call me or come near me. I texted all of this to OW and we txtd for a long time.

It has been an eye opener for both of us. I would recommend it to anyone. We were able to clear up A LOT of the BS just between us and I believe we will continue to compare notes.

Hope some of this makes sense.

S&S