As you've probably heard a million times of course the WAS blames the LBS. Much easier to pin the blame on someone else, rather than taking a good look at yourself and the choices, yes choices you make. Did my H blame me - yep - tried to run away from me (his problem). Was I his biggest problem, probably not. Has his life gotten any better, nope.

I think you do know why it bothers you. Sometimes, it just takes longer to detach. I suppose it takes longer when there's a child involved.

Is it time for a new tunnel, not being or seeming her friend for now?


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)