Over the Shock and GALing 4

[AlexEN]

Thinker,

I have exactly this sitch:

At the same time, I still think that my W's initial view of D (Thinker still around providing full financial and child-care support, and Mrs. Thinker otherwise free to pursue new career and love interests without concern for money and without losing any time or love from her kids is completely out to lunch.

But, on top of that, she wants to go back to school full-time to get a masters in public policy with yours truly footing the bill (oh, and to be BFFs with me)...

But, as you pointed out, (I'm paraphrasing) everyone's sitch has its own "suckdom"... Although I am envious of the good parts of your cycle problem...

-AlexEn