What is a nice way to say No, you made this situation you deal with it?
kat
How about you made this situation, you deal with it? I just think what's wrong with saying, we went to a court and have an agreement or contract or whatever they call it. If you're unhappy, feel free to hire an L and file a motion.
If it's not good for the kids, I wouldn't just agree to it. I think you have always been too nice to your H, and it's more important to look out for your kids than be nice to your ex. ps. I am saving for a landline!!! My phone doesn't work half the time here! Karen