Thanks for all the advice. I am so confused at this point, back and forth. I want to be thinking rationally that this is getting somewhat better.
I am trying to be patient. I guess it is hard for me to balance when to push forward and when to act AS IF. We texted each other like 10 times today deciding on where to eat and where to go out. I think that was too much, but I don't know. I want to talk to her more (because I think it's working) but I also think the AS IF is working as well.
I'm also concerned (Fear) that she is possibly pleasing me and agreeing with or doing things with me to make me happy or not hurt my feelings or put up a front so to speak. Is that humanly possible to do with all the emotions that have been running back and forth? Would you have to be a heartless mastermind communicator to have that type of control over your emotions?
Also it seems like for the past couple of months she has been emotionally trying to detach from me. I responded in a way (at least the first 6-7 weeks) that might have continued to fuel that. Giving her space space space. It wasn't until recently (I mean within the last 6-7 days that I noticed small changes and responses when I talk to more) Compliment her. Thank her for everything, etc. etc.
