I don't know. I'm 100% supportive of the detachment and GALing. What we strive for here.
I've read many posts here about filing for D. Almost all those I've seen that they just knew when they were done and ready to file for D. No hesitation, questions, or doubts. It doesn't sound like you are at that point yet?
My H did file for D and I am at the point where I'm fine with it, and think it will be better to have it over. But it took me maybe a year and a half to get to this point! Karen
