Hi mnt-dreams, I just wanted to say that initially I was talking to my close friends & sister. Even that became too much. Everyone tried to help but I decided to talk to 2 people about my sitch so that I don't go do something off the wall. I told them that my goal is to preserve my M, but plan for the worst. I need them to support that goal & to NOT judge my H. We all have a journey, if this is ours .... I don't want to walk away from it a lesser of a person. So....not to use ur post, but keep the people u get advice from at a minimum. I think we have to learn also to trust our own judgement. I hope u had a good day!
