I guess I'm kind of confused. After reading Michelle's post "LRT when there's infidelity", I thought the idea was to find out what your spouse is missing in your relationship that he or she is finding with the other person they've become involved with. Then finding a way to fulfill that yourself. It seems that this advice is contrary to that. I really do not know the status of the OW except that I'm sure he will be seeing her once he's gone. If I shut him out physically and emotionally now am I not just pushing him into her arms?
Me:42 H:47 T:11 yrs M:5 1/2 yrs Death of my step daughter in July 2008 He began relationship with OW in August 2008 H will be moving out in next couple of weeks
