SO2 - H has apologized many times before now and I just wanted to see the change before believing the apology. I think he really meant it many times but he just didn't do anything about it like he is this time.

Volleydog - I would love to talk to your W - I have to say that it is very complicated to be the spouse - you have to find a balance between maintaining your self respect and learning to forgive as well as understanding the problem. It is much easier to pick one of them and stick with that remedy for onesself.

SilverFox, - It is awesome to listen to his maturity kick in and have a grown up conversation.


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11