I'm back, and he's moving out

[lola485]

Puppy, the grief isn't over the OW, it's over his daughter's death. That's why I was hoping some people might be able to look at those other threads. There's just too much to post in one fell swoop. His daughter was his world and her death has changed him. What may have been marital problems that could be worked on have become something else. I think he's also in a mid life crisis. He even told me after her death he just stopped trying. (to work on our marriage) He's thinking there must be something else out there...something that will bring him happiness. His grief combined with MLC have made him think the feeling he gets from a girl over 20 years younger than he is will somehow make him whole again and make him happy. All this while he tells me I'm his best friend and there's no one else like me.