we are in similar positions and i know how u feel.

why cant they see the person the ow is? why do they have to leave again?

happy birthday. mine is next week.

im struggling too, i dont know what exactly to do or how to act.

and i cant get the thoughts of the ow out of my head and when i do, its because im creeping back into denial.

from what i understand, we need to detach. but its hard, when we have bounced around so much.

im sure i was not much help, just letting u know u are not alone.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09