we are in similar positions and i know how u feel.
why cant they see the person the ow is? why do they have to leave again?
happy birthday. mine is next week.
im struggling too, i dont know what exactly to do or how to act.
and i cant get the thoughts of the ow out of my head and when i do, its because im creeping back into denial.
from what i understand, we need to detach. but its hard, when we have bounced around so much.
im sure i was not much help, just letting u know u are not alone.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09