Actually you should stop initiating contact now. He's with another woman. Period. He refused to give you their secret phone...HELLO! That means he's still cheating on you.
Start getting some respect back for yourself. Do you enjoy the thought of "sharing" your H? I hope you're not still ML to him. Don't know what you'll catch.
In terms of your D, set the terms of what is acceptable for him to do in terms of her. If he doesn't like it, then tough. He made his bed. Plus do you really want your D to think that it's okay for daddy to be sleeping with someone else other than mommy?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
