"Uncomfortable? No. A little awkward? Maybe. There was no tension or frustration on my part. I didn't want to control him at all. "
Really. So, you enjoyed all that obsessing over his GF? So you enjoyed wondering what he did with the money you gave him? Hmmmmm.......
You didn't want him there if he was involved with his GF. It was definitely disturbing you. It shows here loud and clear.
As for keeping your son from his father "for his own good," that's an old story that is very seldom true, and that few people continue to believe once they get a little perspective. Worst case, your son can survive coming home in the middle of the night. He can call you on his cell, right?
