--> Once the kids started staying at Ed's place, I had to call him up and get a feel as to who he was. He seems like an ok guy and the kids get along with him fine.

Kerry, Did you look into or do a background check on OM? I mean here's a stranger messing with your wife and your kids and your wife has shown poor judgement.

And how did you go about picking your L ?
(Sorry for hijack but hope its useful in general)