I messed up bad. Or as Smiley would say, 'Failure to observe detail".
Woman-friend wrote me a frustrated email about how 'the rules keep changing'. While discussing today's change up for me I sent her an email re - I didn't want to get pushed so I remained calm but firm and now W is being nice.
...or at least I thought I did. I accidentally sent it to W and I got this response"
"this is an extremely condescending email. Keep your psychological tools for dealing with me to yourself in the future."
D'OH!!
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh