I've come full circle #26

[kat727]

Right on cue, ex can't even wait until June 1st to talk about the kids. Now he is changing it to spending the night every Tuesday and having them spend the night on Sunday's that he has them. He won't keep taking D10 to her flute lesson as of July 1, but that means he won't bring her back in town for her lesson. I am not sure how much good will come out of twice a month.

And the great big coward that he is wants to settle this over email. All of this because he is moving. It is just what is convenient to him. Though he did want to spend extra time with them on Tuesdays after he got paid to do stuff with them but assures me S16 would be home by 5.

Part of me just wants to say this isn't convenient to the kids. It isn't fair to them. D10 has been taking lessons for nearly two years and he already seems to cancel them more than have them because it just isn't convenient for him. What would happen if I were to move? He would have a fit and expect me to honor all of these "rules". What is a nice way to say No, you made this situation you deal with it?

kat