A little update... Saw H today, for exchanging of funds needed to care for S. I was a little annoyed that he decided to do this at the time he knows that we have dinner and expected me to meet up with him at the bank, so my PMA wasn't all it should have been. I was fairly civil, but definitely not happy/bubbly. I had planned to veg out on the couch for the most part this evening, so the change in plans wasn't well recieved.
H told me his plans for the weekend after S invited him to see Up! on saturday. It wasn't too involved of an exchange, but it wasn't fighting or too terribly unpleasant.
So my goal for this week is to maintain a positive attitude when speaking with H and to give him one genuine compliment or statement of appriciation per day.
I'm getting the impression that whatever I'm doing is at least sort of working, that he's beginning to warm up a little, and that the August move-in was a serious consideration. Only time will tell, but that is my impression at this point.
However, in the back of my mind, I'm second guessing myself, thinking that I may not be able to trust him again, and what will happen if things do work out and I am in need of reassurances? (If you recall, for 6 months he was visiting a female friend and I still do not know the full extent of what happened when he was there)
Thanks for reading and any advice you may have to offer.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
