I think Kerry has a good question here. Your H may not be able to cure his working fixation, so can you live w/it? If not, then you know where you are (also, I love the history references, my man).
Jeff also feels you could give 100% if your H gave you a sign of some sort that he was in completely as well. I agree w/this too.
Jeff also wonders if you can try to be "warmer" w/H as he's trying to be w/you. I too like this suggestion, but am unsure if you are able or willing to pull it off.
Not a criticism, just an observation. If it isn't something you can do, then that too should be revealing a lot to you, my friend.
