Renee, you have to live your life from this point on thinking that your XH will not talk to you any longer. I'm not trying to be negative with that remark, just trying to point out to you that if you continue wondering what if, or when, you will let your life pass you by. Move forward and if he wants to talk to you in the future, and if you want to talk to him, great, but if not, at least you won't be wasting your time. I for one refuse to speak to my XW. I am not bitter by taking that stance, I have just closed the door permanently on that chapter in my life, I have totally moved forward and I want nothing further to do with her. I'm not suggesting that you do the same, but I do believe that you need to move ahead.
