He is "warm" and soft and asks me how I am and if I have any news. When I say nothing, he repeats, "and you?" making sure I understand he is asking about me personally. For some reason, although nothing big, it strikes me as weird. He has done it 3-4 times now.
This is a little interesting. It almost sounds like he cares. I think, that if you can do it, when he does this you might want to try to mirror him. Maybe try to be a little bit "warm" and soft back. It is possible (I'm suffereing from wishful thinking) that he is testing the waters a bit, and is afraid to do any more than that without a little bit of a positive response on your part. Nothing big, just enough that he can feel comfortable warming up a little more?
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Today he said this dinosaur park in Thessaloniki is open and it is supposed to be good and his friend living there told him we should take our son. He didnt suggest anything and I didnt volunteered. If he wants us to go, he should USE his damn tongue (hmmm that sounded funny).
Maybe you could give him a little opening here. Ask him if he would like to go. Make him actually say he wants to go, but give him an opening.
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I am not 100% committed to my M with H. Not even 50%.
There is no ONE right answer to the question. I will have MY one right answer. Soon. Very soon. And I agree, it is clear. Why am I fighting it? K
There isn't one right answer. I agree with that. I'm feeling that you are waiting for H to give an indication of if he is in or out. Probably based on what he does with his jobs. If he shows that he wants to be in, I still think you will commit 100%. If not, well..... At some point it takes two.
