Ha, Coach, when I saw you posted I said out loud "Alright, give it to me!"
I need to get a grip.
"Have a real dialouge with your H about what is going on."
Yes, I am trying to wrap my brain around what that will be. It can't be the old "we really need to do something" conversation.
I'm resisting pushing this separation forward and instead I'm staying stuck. I see it and he knows it too. Knows that when it comes down to it, I will lose way more than he will in ways that matter most to me.
So, checklist is a great start and I thank you for that simple suggestion. My overwhelmed-ness leads to inaction as you can see.
