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I wish I could just handle it all and be cool...


break it into small enough pieces to handle - checklist

get help if needed

stop all uncessary expenses - cable, bottled water, magazines, lawn service, etc

have a real dialouge with your H about what is going on.

Thinking thru it helps control the emotions. Engage both sides of the brain.

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You want to buy some art? I've got some good stuff here.


Put it on ebay or find a broker.

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.