I have to do this maybe to vent, maybe to get some opinions, I'm not sure why, I just know I have to put it in writing.
If someone constantly brings up somee sex fetish they have, and you have said over and over and over that you're not interest and that it goes against every core of your body and find it to be a preversion of what sex should be, but they keep on trying, what does it say about that person? They accept the fact, then the pressure starts again. "You would do it if you loved me, it really tells me that you are really into me". You say NO, but then they start making you feel like your different from "all his other women" You keep saying no, no, no, again they say okay, I'm sorry, good for a few weeks, then it all starts again.
Why can't no be the answer? Why can't it be dropped? Why do I feel like the wierd one?