So, you had a moment. Ok, it's over. Show your strength now. You can only do your best in any given moment. Then it's over.
I wouldn't bother asking him if it's what he really wants. He knows how to stop it if that is what he wants to do.
I'm glad that "talking" here is helping you. This bb has been a constant resource for me. The strength and generosity I have found here can't be repaid.
Do something really nice for yourself on the days you're feeling low. Doesn't have to cost alot (or anything for that matter) or take you away from home. Just pamper yourself. You do deserve it you know.
