I think it's a little sadistic of her to ask you why you haven't asked about her R with the OM. She's probably doing it to get your "approval" of it so she doesn't feel guilty any more. I mean she did say that she grieves at the loss of your future together.
Puh-lease! What kind of a response is that? I feel sad for myself even though I made the conscience decision to leave (because I was sad), tear your heart out and stomp on it, then jump in bed with another guy.
If chasing after her is what you think is going to work, then that's up to you. I would have as little contact with her as possible so that she isn't being validated for her behavior. I can see validating the things she saw as what went wrong in the M, but not validating (approving) her acting that way towards you.
The same goes for when the WAS asks to be friends after they've cheated on the LBS. I mean what planet are they from?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
