Yep I agree with what everyone's said about the timeline.
When I first came onto the boards, this post actually helped me understand what my W was going through which made me see her in a different light. I was able to show her more compassion as opposed to anger.
This plus alot of the materials I've read on MLC helped to give me a bit of focus as to how to approach my W and set my own goals based on her behaviors. Which of course, changed by the hour.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.