I believe that the "final insult" of the D will help you to get even stronger and make it even harder for W.
Lucas, that is exactly what I am hoping for.
I know I don't want her back now, as the person she's become, intoxicated in the euphoria (whatever that may be, yuck!) of OM. And truth be told, I don't think it could even be possible. However it would be nice if she could just step up and say "hey, wait a second", kick OM out of the picture and let's just spend some "away time".
But again, what does that tell the kids? On the same token, what does either of the options tell the kids? Would she be willing to go the distance and do the work? CAN, I ever trust her again? The answers are few and far between and not very positive to this situation.
The complication comes in the fact, we have spoken. We both know our wrongs. We both expressed the desire to not persue this. We both love our children very much. But, actions speak louder than words as they say. And if any of what hse says is true, she must act within the next 11 days.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
