Well, today my divorce is final. In just 2 minutes in court, my 21 yr marriage was over. It hurts so bad. I can't believe that H can throw away 21 yrs of marriage without even giving us a chance.
H and OW are on vacation with S17 and 1 of her kids. I hate that I'm alone today without one of my kids to hug.
H still can't look at me. S17 said it's because he knows he's wrong but he will never admit it.
I told S17 that I still loved his father very much and am still willing to work on things with him and that I wish his dad was being a better example for him. He said 'Yes, he is. He's being a good example of what not to do.' I was very proud of him. But it's sad that a child has that attitude about their father. Your father should be someone you respect and want to be like. I'm glad S17 can see through his dads BS.
