There are however two answers to it really. One is YES, you're married, but NOT to the man you're dealing with today. And NO, the man that stands before you today, bringing pain and heartache to your life, IS NOT the man you married.
Your M like all of ours on this board is floating in the abyss between here and gone. Your M is caught up in the whirling tornado of your husband's emotional chaos, and until the force of that great and powerful whirling confusion that owns him lets go...he will spin and twist a destructive path through his life and yours. BUT, when the madness is over and he's thrown harshly to the ground...it's YOU he'll look to to rescue him from himself.
The question for all of us LBSs...is can we be there, when they fall? T2
