I do love your take on things. I always find your words to be calming for me.
It is funny how perspective changes and although I didn't ever expect to hear the words "I'm sorry" from my XW, it was nice to know.
I'm not angry w/her anymore. I still carry some sadness, but not anger. My sadness is for what is lost and will always be a part of me, I think. I'm also sad for how lost she is personally and I'll always love her even though I'm no longer in love w/her.
I just hope she can find herself for the benefit of not only her, but for our D as well.
However, it is out of my hands and not my concern any longer. My only focus now is on me and my D.