My W always wanted me to put her on a budget. I thought I was doing the "cool" thing by letting her go on without one. I was wrong on that one. I think now that she wanted to be more involved so that she could have more control of her own life.
Is there a way you could involve your STBW in the overall finances? Could it be something you do together? What if she could gain some comfort in the understanding and you could get some help? Seems from out here that an open dialogue about money could remove a lot of your stress.
L.
In some ways you are getting that second chance. Bless you and your family.
Me 41 W 39 d7, s4 M 13 Bomb ILYBNILWY November 28th, 2007
