My Gosh, T2... how awesome a post is that? I don't know who you were before all of this started... but you are one fabulous human being now... I can't wait to read your future posts... and watch you grow closer to your H, building a better relationship than you ever though you would have... and I hope to follow right after you. You and Annette are my heros right now. I know you are Jewish, but this Christian is going to keep you in my prayers.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.