You have the power right now, SO2. That's why he's pissed off and being all mad. You are in control and he hates it. Just keep your cool. Stay in control by not indulging his ridiculous behavior and being happy with your life. Live in the present.
I kinda had a chuckle picturing him throw his little hissy fit and closing the door on you. Been there, done that with H. I actually DID giggle when my H did that....they are sooooo grown up
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him