Oh then. I am glad you have been texting.

Ummm, I guess she is polite when she is around you but no flirting or anything on either side. Have you given her compliments to try to push the envelope a little? Like, did you get a new haircut, it looks good. Everyone wants to be told they look good. It sure works on my H. Or, I really like that dress on you, it suits you very well and the color is fab.

See if a little flirting get you anywhere, breaks the ice or not.

Mind like a beginner, what would you do to attract a new girlfriend? Don't think of her as your W. Think of yourself as a guy who sees a nice looking girl and you want her attention.

I know it's pursuing but it seems the going dark phase was good for slowing down the conflict and it has not brought her curiosity back on you so you need to do smtg different to mix things up.

Just a suggestion.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'