Some of it has to be the way they are raised. My ex was exactly the same way. Last night I was talking to a friend and said,"It's funny he never helped put anything together, or take the wallpaper down, or paint a wall. I used our special dates in passwords and codes and he never did. No wonder it was so easy for him to disengage."
But even so, we have emerged stronger. Look at what we can do!! Next time around it is a partnership and I am not playing Mom. See what we have learned?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory