Do you e-mail each other? My DB coach said to just send funny little e-mails to spouse, e.g. what Weeman has done that is funny and see if you get a reaction. Test the water. So to speak rather than just out and say, 'hey, would you go out with me again?' Just a suggestion, trying to think of baby steps.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09