Magnificent

[mishka422]

That's the problem Michele! I never had a true adult R, I was always responsible for everything and still am. I always knew in my head that I was not responsible for him, however someone in the house had to be the resonsible adult or else everything would have fallen apart. Oh my, imagine that....it did anyway. So much for hard work and responsibility! HA! Most men I have known in my life (outside of my family - why are they so different?) have no clue how to function in life. They expect everything to be done for them by the other people in their life. Now, some of these men are lawyers, doctors, CEO's, CFO's. Still, in daily life they are just passengers in the car someone else is actually driving. Why is that? Immaturity can't be the only explanation. It confuses the heck out of me. I thought it might just be me, but I watch these men as an outsider and listen to their wives as they make excuses for their husband's lack of caring, maturity, responsibility, and follow through. It's sad. Is it because we, as a society, feel entitled to our own selfish desires and to heck with what needs to be done for those around us?

Ok, getting philosophical again.....