Game Over?

[dday101798]

t-minus 11 days.

So this is interesting. Picked up the boys last night for Wednesday visitation. W was no where to be found. So after spending a few minutes standing around in front of "her" house with the boys trying to get a plan together, we finally pile up in my truck and leave. In the rear view I see OM hurridly leave the porch and get in his POS car, guess he was on the front porch all along.

At dinner I got curious and asked the boys, so where was your mother at? The said she wasn't home. (she had texted me twice to pick them up from her house vs. police station which we haven't done the police station swap in well over a month anyways).

Any way we had fun, went bowling which thankfully the attendant charged me their "new summer rate", and it was only half the amount it normally is. So, in the midst of bowling there must of been some kind of party in the banquet room and this one lady is little toasted and begins to flirt with me commenting on S12 rightfully putting my name on the monitor as 'dad' and she goes on and on about "you can't be their dad you're too young" yadda-yadda. I just played it polite and kept it small trying to get her to see that although flattering, I'm not interested and she finally got the hint after about ten minutes of this or so.

Here's the funny part, bring the boys back to W and S10 as reliable as can be immediately begins to blurt out "dad's got a girlfriend (teasingly). W was standing all of a few feet away from (as usual for some odd reson) and turned stone white and gave me this weird look. S10 kept going on saying the woman's name, as she introduced herself, an dhow she kept "hitting on me". For some reason or another W gave this sort of 'disappointed' look. I just shrugged my shoulders as to say 'hey, what am I supposed to do, you put me back out there?'.

Pretty weird that was.

Then, S10 pointed out "our" Trans Am (was our pride and joy) had been moved and said "see dad, it does run, just not well". Then said "mom, you need to wash 'YOUR' car. Taking that in stride I queitly let her know that the statement of it being hers still gets to me as S10 did a full on butt-plant on the hood. I would have normally gone ballastic at that very second and pretty much come short of threatening his life, but I said nothing. Again, wife looks at me with a 'disappointed' look as to say "why didn't you say anything to him about that!?!". And again, I shrugged my shoulders and smirked as to say 'hey, it's "YOUR" car'.

So that is all, I was hoping to get her imput on what she thinks of the D papers. I will ahve to talk to her tonight about it. I need to know how much more finances I don't have, to commit to this action. Turns out now my cousin's main employer is dropping their insurance effective immediatlely and with her just getting out of a cast, is not good. I also need to talk to W about S10 b-day next week and what she's getting him, and visitation plan changes if any. Then lastly, but I'm not sure if I will say anything at this point, but for some odd reason only the checks that I have written her thus far for child support are the only one's that the bank seems to have a problem scanning images of. I want to say that she is not forging them with my signature as "cash only" so there is no record of the transaction, however, given all the other things she done in the last year or so, I put nothing past her.