ok, call me devil's advocate but this statement
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if things work out this will all be in the past



i emphasize the word IF - what IF things DON'T work out, will this all be in the past? oh my, what a question eh? i have issues with this - i need to know that IF or IF NOT - i will let go. i have to let go. forgiveness means to LET GO OFF - whether deserving or not. and that means leaving the past in the past - doesn't mean you forget, it just means it's not an issue

agree?

kitti