Sorry to disagree with.stuck but I see it as diffusing an already agitated person. CIPA it sounds like you listened and understood the point W was making and stated that. Nothing wrong there and if she crosses a boundary or you feel controlled then let your actions set things straight.

Sounds as if she needs contact the way she deals with it is venting.

Stay with being dark/dim.

My GF texted me at 3:30am this morning saying "hi stranger" and then small talk about someone else doing work at the place she works instead of me. Asking me "shouldn't I be doing that". Now can you see how things are weighing on there minds as well. They will reach out in the most strange ways at the funkiest times.

They are dealing also and the hardest to deal with is ones self. Haven't you figured that out from all this. Isn't this the hardest thing you've ever done?

Stay strong

cire

Me 48
X's vary
S 27
S 18
Back with high school sweety after 30 years..