K....as usual, you have said it very eloquently. A true M is about partnership, companionship, shared love and laughs, TIME. What you have is a co-parenting R pure and simple. There doesn't seem to be anything more to the R. If you didn't have the kids and his work to talk about, what would you discuss? If you can't think of a darned thing.....guess what? There is no R.
You are beyond strong K! You are darned near superwoman and I have no doubt that you will make the rest of your life exciting!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!