Oh my yes, but I try not to go there to often. Especially when T2 brought up the fact that if it was me with OM would my H be waiting for me, I think not!!!
I was with a group of friends Saturday night and we kind of touched on the subject, but I found myself getting really nervous and feeling weak for not saying enough is enough and moving on...Joan Jett says it the best "I hate myself for loving you"
I keep focusing on the future and if things work out this will all be in the past. And, my friends, their marriages aren't in the best shape either and it could happen to any of them....