I think she is not honest, I think she is manipulating you because she realised the trouble she would get in if you exposed her affair or maybe even the OM told her he cant afford to be exposed and she is doing this for him (yeah I know how that sounds). Be cautious. Be smart. I hope I am wrong.
I'm going to agree w/ you here. I haven't believed a word she has said even though I've wanted to. This is why I'm still actively trying to find out who the OM is. My friend is trying to get his name and type of vehicle he drives. This way I can verify if they are still involved. If she is doing this for him, she's an idiot. Oh well.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!