I also wanted to ask if anyone else has felt this way. I think one of the reasons I cant let go of my xh is because I have it in my mind that no one else will have me. That he is the only one that can ever love me. I honestly think this and so I fight soooo hard for him. I believe he could do anything to me and I would fight to win him back. I know this is becuase I think he is the only one that can ever love me. If he cant love me than how can someone else? Just being honest.