2) get information about your future and what plans you should/can make. How? See a L.
3) Empower yourself to be able to visualize a good life with or without him, and that takes info, which you will be getting from #1 and 2.
4) continue to DB with your actions and words which also means you cannot control HIS actions/reactions so STOP worrying about them.
5) GAL which means more of #1-4 and whatever else you are doing to GAL, DB 101.
6) don't "teach him a lesson" or "show him consequences" b/c LIFE WILL DO THAT FOR HIM. These are not tactics, they are YOUR reality and your action plans, which HE caused you to somehow create. SO now You are creating a new life b/c you have to. That is reality.
I know this sucks, but you have SOME clarity. Keep the focus on you and yours...this is no dress rehearsal; it's the real thing and the only show you get to be in.
Be the star honey!
(( j )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
