First of all, I'm happy for you and your H, even though you are scared, I know you can do this. If it were me I would be scared, too. So being scared is probably a good thing and this wonderful bb is here for you
Quote: It's a whole lot of work for us, there's no doubt about that, but sounds to me like your H is screaming for a little reassurance too, despite the fact that YOU need it more. Remember...they're like "kids"...and we're the grownups.
I want to whine a little bit...why do I have to do everything, why do I have to be the one to do all the work, why, why, why. I want someone to take care of me, I want H to be happy and up beat around me, to make me feel good, to say he loves me, to say he cares about me...I want that too. Okay, enough whining, because I am the strong one and will continue to be the strong one, I will continue to do the work for both of us...at least for now.
It's Monday, I'm a little tired, and maybe have a little bit of an attitude about this whole situation..oh no I'm backsliding
I'm going to put myself out there today and ask H to go to a concert with me at the end of October,give him time to think about it...should I????
