WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 9

[antlers]

It's past the time that had been calling in the past. She hadn't done it every nite, but I think this is the first time she missed 2 nites in a row, if you don't count the days that we actually spend time together as a family.

I DID NOT call. I was tempted a few times, but know that it's not the right thing to do. I do have to remember I have to work tomorrow so I can't have a few drinks to try and take the edge off. Plus I know that's not that answer (AND NO THAT'S NOT WHAT I NORMALLY DO)

I am hurting today - I think the most since she moved out over 5 weeks ago. It doesn't make sense. I would have thought it would have gotten easier. Not harder.

Is this normal?!?!

Hey friend.

First of all, who knows what her reasons are! She probably doesn't even know! They say and do what they feel at that exact moment! The only certainty, is that she's 'in the fog'.

Good! We're glad you didn't call. I know it's tempting, but you said it right..."it's not the right thing to do". One drink, or a Michelob Ultra, would be alright though.

I know...we know that you're hurting. Lots of us are hurting. We also know it doesn't make sense. It's too soon for it to get easier friend! It will get easier...later on down the line. This is a crisis for you...we understand. Lots of us here are experiencing a crisis too!

Yes...under the circumstances...it's normal. Patience, my man! It takes time, plain and simple, for things to get better for us. We've got to do the best we can while that time passes. We know how hard it is too!