I would be happy but it's his timing. When he first moved out he saw them about 10 hours a week no overnights, then after 6 or 7 months started one night a week, a couple months ago he went to 2 nights a week. Last week he wanted them 3 nights and our mediation is probably going to be this month or so. I'm thinking he's doing it more to lower his child support. He actually goes running with friends and works most of the time he has with them. So I guess I'm not as happy as I would be if I thought he was genuinely wanting to spend time with them. And I worry about after the D, he may want to back down his time with them and hurt them. But he is who he is. I try to accept that, pray for him, and stuff. Karen